A List of 25 Sex Show Ideas

Yep, you read the title right. This week is going to be a list of spicy show ideas that will surely drive your audience crazy. Remember to tweet about it beforehand to let your followers know that this is a night on camera they won’t want to miss!

  1. Ice Show– all you need is ice cubes!
  2. Duo– have another age-verified member join your cam.
  3. Perform Outside– unless you have nosey neighbours of course.
  4. Tip Count Down– a classic.
  5. Birthday Show– bring a cake and consider sitting on it?
  6. Bondage Night– seriously, audiences eat up all things taboo.
  7. Shower Shoot– the one time you can’t pee in the shower.
  8. Sexy Trivia– “I’ll remove one piece of clothes for each correct answer about my made up life!”
  9. Anal Show– a classic I couldn’t bring myself to do.
  10. Sexy Police Officer– you probably already have the sun glasses and handcuffs.
  11. Sex Dice– no need to buy them. There’s a bot for that!
  12. Yoga– make them feel like they’re spying on a sexy yoga class.
  13. Spank Night– all you need is a paddle, and a willing butt!
  14. Bath Badness– just set your lap top up on a stool near your tub!
  15. Oil Show– oil everywhere. Simple.
  16. Dance Party– the most fun I’ve had on camera is dancing in my underwear.
  17. Food night– whipped cream goes a long way.
  18. Panty Fashion Show– this has actually been requested a lot more than you’d think.
  19. Sex Toy Initiation– baby dildos first cam show!
  20. Paint Night– personal favourite.
  21. Catholic School Girl Dress Up– you’ve probably already thought of this one.
  22. Wax– but without burning yourself.
  23. Truth or Dare– tips required.
  24. Birds Eye View– no idea how to set it up, but I think it would be worth the hassle.
  25. 1/2 Price Sale– tip menu is 1/2 price from 11pm-12am only!

 

Oh, and as always, who doesn’t love a good Lovense show?

What did I miss? Let me know in the comments to keep the ideas coming! I hope at least one thing on this list inspired you, and helped you to make more money. Thanks for the read, and I’ll see you back here next week for a post on the Seven Types of Viewers in the cam world.

Love always,
Amy

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A Short Guide on Poop

So here’s the deal: I had planned to do an entire week about anal on camera. I had a few ideas such as reviewing anal sex toys, bleaching your butt, and so on. The problem was that I couldn’t come up with enough material for each post, and frankly I’m simply not interested in butt stuff so I decided to drop that idea. The upside is that you guys get a bonus post out of it! Enjoy this quick blog about now pooping yourself while taking dildo anally, and on a cam website.

Not Pooping Yourself

So, you’ve decided to do an anal show, or maybe you’re reading this because you want to privately try butt things. Whatever the case, here’s a few quick tip on avoiding everyones nightmare: accidentally pooping yourself.
The #1 tip is simple. Poop a few hours before you put anything in your butt. You can’t accidentally let go of something that isn’t there. The second tip is to eat a lot of fibre, so that tip #1 is possible. Some professionals also recommend eating bland foods, rather than spicy foods to not upset your bowels.

P.S. It’s going to feel like you’re pooping yourself. Calm down, you most likely aren’t.

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Looking Clean

There’s probably going to be a camera getting some up-close and personal shots of your butt, so you want to make sure it looks clean. Obviously, the best and safest way to clean yourself up is to just shower with warm water and mild soap. Some people also chose to douche. This typically isn’t recommended, but is not harmful when done in moderation.

Okay, so now you know a little more about poop. Check back Friday for the regular post of the week!

Love always,
Amy

 

 

Butt Safety

Let’s talk about anal! Below are some quick tips to safely masturbating with your butt.

Less Pain, More Gain

  • Lube, lube, and even more (water-based) lube. It’s something you hear often, and it’s with good reason that you do. Trust me, lube will make your experience so much better.
  • Start slow! Put small things in your butt before putting anything of significant size in there. And no matter what you put in there, be sure it has a base. I don’t need any of you ending up in the ER because a toy got stuck in your butt.
  • Fingernails hurt. Cut them.

“Cum” Prepared

Before your first anal show, make sure you figure it out off camera. You need time to figure out works for you without the pressure of your audience. Furthermore, just because you’re nervous, doesn’t mean you should get drunk or high to try this out.

“Don’t just be drunk or under some sort of substance and just trying to get it in there. That’s how a lot of women end up hating anal sex because you tend to be tensed up and not working with the process.” -Doctor Van Kirk

How To Not Give Yourself an Infection

Once something goes in your butt, it does not go anywhere else in your body. It does not go in your vagina. It does not go in your mouth. It does not go near your eyes. Repeat: once something goes in your butt, it does not go anywhere else in your body. This also goes for your fingers since bacteria can be trapped under your nails, no matter how short they are. Wash your hands thoroughly!

Clean all toys well, and use condoms over dildos. If a toy is used in your butt, it is now an anal toy. Buy something else for vaginal simulation. Please.

Be sure to check back next week for another post. Get excited because it’s a list of show ideas (you’re welcome).

& again, don’t put anything in your butt without a base.
Love always,
Amy

 

 

 

Socializing Naked

I’m going to start this article off with a quick burst of honesty. As an online model, I hated social media, and couldn’t stand to use anything but Twitter. Sure, it’s quick and seemingly easy money, but it makes it so that your viewers can contact you at any point in your day, instead of just when you’re on camera. This led me to feeling like I was constantly working, and ultimately caused me to dread the sound of SnapChat notifications. Here’s a few quick tips to make social media as a cam girl less about working 24/7, and more about creating a more fun and intimate experience for your clients.

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Twitter

Twitter is the #1 social media used by models, and viewers. It’s relatively common that cam models have a free account, where they can post when their viewing or if there’s any change to their schedules. It can also be a great way to interact with your followers, without getting too involved (ie. surveys, like this tweet if..”). The key to this, however, is to ignore your direct messages. Save the one on one conversations for paid content, otherwise everyone will just use your free platform. Wouldn’t you?

 

SnapChat

If you haven’t already figured out, I despised SnapChat. It was ten dick pics in a row followed by a black screen with the words “Show pussy. I got a big tip waiting for u so I deserve it xx” written across it. Repeat. To avoid this, set extremely clear boundaries about your expectations. For example:

SnapChat is 369 tokens. No dick pics, or demands… unless they’re asked for 😉 Snap you soon! 

My flatmate, who was also an online model, would only check her social media 6 days of the week. She said it was a crucial part in keeping her from feeling like her job revolved around her part time job as a cam girl. Furthermore, for no reason should you ever feel guilty for deleting someone who does not respect your boundaries.

 

Instagram

I didn’t actually use Instagram as a model, so perhaps I don’t have a whole lot of room to talk about it. Here’s what I know from checking out other models accounts, and from talking with those who used it. Not many people will pay to follow your Instagram, as they usually feel they can just see you naked in the chat room. If they’re paying for the platform, clients will typically want to use something where they can chat with you.

Skype

Treat Skype as a platform for private shows. Take the money upfront, and make sure to keep an eye on the time so that you aren’t giving more than they paid for. Also, it’s worth noting that Chaturbate will not let you send messages containing the word Skype. If a customer is inquiring, insert a space between each letter so the algorithm doesn’t pick up on what you’re trying to communicate.

 

Email

Not really a social media, but it seemed relevant enough to include it. Since you have to make an email to set up any social media for your online persona, you might as well use it. Email is an awesome way to arrange privates, and you can attach it to your Amazon account to know when someone has purchased an item from your wish list.

 

 

A Couple More Quick Tips

  1. Remember this is your job. Stay professional, and don’t use any social media to rant. It’s not a cute look.
  2. You can make deals! If your social medias went for 400 tokens ea., why not sell two together for 600? Even in the cam world, people love a good Buy One, Get One 50%
  3. Turn off your push notifications so that messages from your clients aren’t appearing on your phone screen. You wouldn’t want someone from your real life to see that, and say “who’s messaging you?”
  4. As Rosie says, “know your value plus tax”. It can be hard to pick a price for your social media, as you want to start off more inexpensive and increase price upon increased demand. Try your best not to undercharge!

 

Social media can be a lot of fun, and is a fantastic way to get to know your viewers. It’s also an effective way to let them know about changes in your schedule, or any other relevant information. It’s totally up to you what you want to use, and how you want to use it! I hope you enjoyed this post, and I look forward to seeing you in the next one. (It’s about butts!!)

Love always,
Amy

Interview: Living With A Cam Model

1. How would you describe living with a cam girl?
Interesting. That’s probably the best word to describe it.

2. What is the funniest story from the experience?
When you were live in the kitchen and I needed water. Oh, or there was the time I had a hook up over, and I heard you on camera.
3. What influences has it had?
I actually considered becoming a cam model myself, something I wouldn’t have thought of otherwise. I thought it was taboo, but learned a lot of people do it and now I’m more comfortable with the idea.
4. Do you view cams?
Yes.
5. Have you ever come across a roommate?
I’ve never seen either of my roommates on the cam site, because of geo-block. Although, I did find someone else from my personal life on a website where his video had been uploaded to. Because it was stolen from the actual cam website he used, it didn’t matter if he had geo-block settings on.
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6. Have you ever appeared online?
My voice did, so I made an alter-ego to go along with it. His name was Zach, and he even had his own twitter (now deactivated).
7. What advice do you have for someone in a similar situation?
It may be weird at first, but eventually you get used to it. Then it gets fun, and your life gets more exciting.
8. What is the main difference between living with a cam model, versus a non-model roommate?
It was more of a “nobody give a fuck” attitude. At times, we were more comfortable seeing each other in our underwear and were more open in the house. The downfall is that you live with a secret
9. Secret?
I thought the entire ordeal was interesting, and exciting so I wanted to tell my friends about my living situation, but because of privacy, safety, and stigma, I didn’t tell anyone about my roommates line of work.
As you read, “Zach’s” twitter is de-activated, so there isn’t anywhere you can find him, but I hope you enjoyed the read none-the-less. Catch me next week with a “Technically Speaking” blog on using Chaturbate settings!
Love always,
Amy

*Read This Post*

The most important post so far. Read this for safety tips!

Many of my fans don’t know that one of the main reasons I quit being a cam model so abruptly was that I had a pretty scary experience. One regular of mine insisted on meeting in person, even if it was just for coffee. I set clear boundaries, and made it very apparent that this wouldn’t happen but he insisted on it. Believing he knew what city I was in, he started going places that he thought I frequented in an attempt to see me in person. If I posted something about McDonalds, he would shortly after send a photo of himself in a McDonalds upset that he had missed me. He once visited the university that he thought I belonged to and even went to approach a girl who apparently looked like me. Obviously, I blocked him, and never went near the city he believed I lived in. Nonetheless, the experience stuck with me. I didn’t have a huge following, and this still happened to me. It happens. Taking precautions to stay safe online is so important, especially in this industry. Here are some super important tips about staying safe as an online model.

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1. Use a fake name

I’ve met cam models who use their real first names, but don’t give out their last. Not good enough. In fact, a lot of models not only use a fake name, but also have a fake real name ready to give to their special clients to give them a false sense of intimacy. Under no circumstance should you give your real name to anybody you meet through the site.

2. Hide your location

If you’re using Chaturbate, your province or state is automatically on your bio. To remove it:

Bio > Edit Your Bio > Location*

Backspace what is written there, and type to change it. I changed mine to “Canada” but a lot of models will just write something funny there. It’s up to you but I advice against having your state or province published there, especially if you’re from a smaller region.

If you use SnapChat, be sure to turn off your location from maps as well. To do this:

Settings > Who Can… > See My Location > Enable Ghost Mode

Be aware of the things you talk about on camera as well. Things to avoid talking about as it could give away hints of your whereabouts include significant weather, locally owned shops, nearby schools, events ect.

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3. Geoblock

What if someone in your area watches your cam room, and then happens to run into you in public? To avoid this uncomfortable, and potentially dangerous situation, you can block users access to your rooms if they’re from certain locations by using their IP address. On Chaturbate, you can do this by:

Settings & Privacy > Broadcaster Settings > Block access to users in these countries: OR Block access to users in these regions: > select desired locations.

Personally, I blocked the province I lived in, but also the province I was raised in so that family members couldn’t accidentally find me.

Note: your shows can be recorded and re-uploaded on other sites, and you will have no way of geo blocking this material. There will be a blog devoted to Network sites soon!

Of course, these are just three ways to safe. There are many others, such as using a fake birthday, and never meeting up with anyone in real life. Thank you for reading this important post, and I hope to see you for a special interview next week! 

Love always,
Amy

Periods & Public Masturbation

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I once knew this girl who referred to her period as her “Shark Week”, which I thought was both hilarious and cleaver. A couple of us even got her a little bag with a photo of “Jaws” on it to keep her sanitary items in. Welcome to your quick guide on surviving your period as an online performer, inspired by sharks.

 

 

    Diagram of a Shark Brain                         Diagram of a Vagina 

 

 

Take a Week Off

While this solution may be the best route for models who are new to the business, it doesn’t always work for those who are more well known, and have already gained a sizeable following.

 

Hide It

The trick most cam girls use is simple. Take the string of your tampon, and tuck it in. Do not cut it. With this trick, you can still do clitoral, anal shows- anything that doesn’t involve vaginal penetration.

 

Change Your Birth Control

There are some birth controls that cause you to have your period once every three months, or not at all. Talk to your doctor for more information, and to find out if this is an option for you.

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Own It

Not something I’ve ever done, but there are plenty of girls who add #period to the title of their show, and continue on as normal. There’s a market for everything when it comes to the sex industry.
PS. You should always thoroughly clean your sex toys after each use, but pay extra special attention when on your period.

(Note: this is technically against Chaturbate’s policy, as they disallow mentions of menstruation.)

Sea Sponge

I’ve never personally met anyone who uses a sea sponge, but this is a common trick used in the porn industry. The two key things to remember when doing this: A make up sponge can not substitute a sea sponge, and you must boil the sponge first. Also, make sure you are totally comfortable taking it out before you put it in. That would be one awkward trip to the doctor!

 

To donate to shark conservation:

https://oceana.org/

https://ocean.org/

https://4ocean.com

*These are not sponsored, or affiliate links

 

I hope these tips help you better survive your period as an online model. Be sure to check back next week for a very important post about staying safe as a cam model. Thanks for reading!

Love always,
Amy